“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
Maya Angelou
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Sunny Sunday
The sun is out, and it feels like spring. There are two robins in the tree outside my window cavorting and celebrating as well. What a glorious way to start the day! I am incorporating mindfulness (paying attention to the here and now) with gratefulness into my thinking about every moment. I am using what the politicos refer to as spin to change my thinking. Last night during a roaring wind storm, during which I tend to worry about all sorts of flying objects and damage, instead I turned my thoughts to how lucky I am in a warm safe home, with a cheery fire and a huge selection of books; gratefulness.
One of the risks of this somewhat Pollyanna-ish thinking is the loss of being taken seriously, always hugely important in the past. But when I framed it in a new way, would I rather be taken seriously and be unhappy or would I rather be happy and let the chips fall where they may? I chose happiness.
Today I will sing, loudly, all the way to Missoula, dance when I dry my hair and put my purchases away, and laugh just for any old reason or no reason at all. Happy Sunday.
Wasting time
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“There is no fun in doing nothing when you have nothing to do. Wasting time is merely an occupation then, and a most exhausting one.”
— Jerome K. Jerome
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OK, so I will admit I have fallen under the spell of the Happiness Project. http://www.happiness-project.com/ Who knew it could be this easy? I am such a sucker for the tag line, “studies show”, and one of the first studies cited shows that taking immediate action gives one a boost and is the gift that keeps on giving. My first resolutions:
- Start writing again – a blog is a great way to start!
- Volunteer – using my best self
- Pursue the intellectual – read more challenging material, think about IDEAS!
Yesterday one of the take action steps was to go to the local public library and submit my volunteer application. I am embarrassed to admit it was the first time I set foot in the door so it may seem odd that I had already decided to volunteer there, but books are my thing, and I need to add some regular human contact to my otherwise rather isolated lifestyle. So the library it is! I was pleased to see that it was comfortable, well stocked, has current book offerings and has wi-fi so some of these missives may originate from there in the future. It is on the other hand, a small town library and needs more space and a remodel – the floors are a serious tripping hazard – I see I have my work cut out for me. What better place to offer my time than a house for books that needs a lot of work, I may be able to use some of that construction knowledge yet.
Take action today items are:
- Work on this blog and find three others that are related or of interest
- Work on my Happiness Project Toolbox – you’ll have to follow the link if you don’t know what that is
- Choose three books that inspire me to mine for essay ideas
- Return my “test” to the library
- Work on one nagging item – filing
Onward…..
Order from Chaos
As part of a larger personal project I found myself tackling the garage yesterday. No small task as the weather conditions needed to be such that I could pull out all three vehicles; the truck, SUV and ATV/snowplow and leave them out all day while I regained some order. Once I had a fire in the wood stove to warm it up a bit, the cold garage being another deterrent to this project, I began the process of primarily just putting things away as most of them have a permanent location. All of the storage and shelves were inaccessible when the garage is crammed with vehicles and I had started stacking items near the door. Once order was restored and the garage swept, things I discovered:
- I have projects in progress that had been forgotten
- With a little reorganization I can put most things away when the vehicles are in the garage
- There are packing materials that belong in a distant storage shed, that for the moment is impossible to get to due to the snow
- That the garage does get nice and warm with the stove going
- A warm garage motivates me to work on the projects in progress
- I love the satisfaction of putting things in order
Another sunny day – this one will be in part for errands that take me out of the house and I will see other humans – yea!
When the sun shines
I am so inspired this morning to work outside even though it is cold – I still find it amazing how much the sun has a direct effect on my mood and my energy. I sat on the porch step this morning just to watch and feel the sunrise, only later did I realize it was only 15 degrees…no wonder the cat did not want to join me. Our bodies are so in tune with the natural world, if only we pay attention. Mindfulness today and every day.
Hello world!
I plan to use this space to create a journal of my life in the Bitterroot Mountains of Montana, but more importantly to put out some essays that have been languishing in notebooks or making brief but not thoroughly fleshed out appearances in my daily thoughts and conversations. Stand by for a little of this and a little of that!
Cathrine McLaren 